"Kheya" - Why this Kolavari di ?

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BASED ON A TRUE STORY
Dedicated to : "Nadaan Parindey :: Rockstar" and " Wahan Kaun hain Tera :: Guide -Dev Anand"
Delhi was preeminent start-up place for her career. Being the only one from her college, lack of known faces helped her to shape a new start. In general engineering colleges across our country suffer from beauty syndrome, but then there are always some exceptions. Kheya was one of them, a prominent one. Her Engineering life was vivid, let not go in particulars about the boy-friends who always changed. For her, she never met the right person in her life, to others whom she rejected, she was a bitch. For rest of the folks like us, she was an eye candy. But we never realised, every eye candy has a heart too.
She was a fashion statement, fantasy of whole college even of professors. Being famous feels good, but for time being, with the recognition it creates an unwanted centre of attention which made Kheya sick of her college. She had more admirers than friends and there was not a single person she could talk her heart out. Boys always took the friendship wrong way and other girls couldn’t cope up with the attention she used to get.
If you see from her view, there was nothing wrong in what she did. She never told anyone she loved them. We guys are always in hurry guessing, be it the size or anything else. She was out spoken, had a figure that our heroines get after many Gym sessions and painful surgeries.  Her light brown eyes could kill any professor but she deserved all grads she got, she was among the toppers. If you trust rumours all credit goes to her short skirt & nice tees but truly speaking it was not the only reason, she was intelligent too.
She tried to find her dream boy in many but looks like her choices were wrong. From the Basketball champ to the book-worm first boy, all guys were more engrossed in her toned body and rounded things than her feelings, early or late she realised it. Heart broke but the search went on, there was no dearth of candidates and at last she said yes to Ryan.
The pair looked perfect together and the scene broke many hearts. “Dil Todne ki Machine” was the perfect word for her. But every girl fall in love someday so did she, and then madly. They became inseparable. A love story started.

2 Years Later
“Life” is never easy, relationships specially; it takes years to make a bond and a phone call to break. Why Ryan & Kheya broke up no one knew in detail but yes many people felt happy, curse works, really works. The black thread Ryan used to wear too couldn’t save them from the evil’s eye. Eye candy girls especially like Kheya can’t remain alone and sad for long, options are always waiting for them, a perfect side effect of increasing girl boy ratio.

The breakup was still a heartbreaking feeling for Kheya but then Sam comes in her life. He hold her when she needed someone by her side which helped her to come out of the past with flying colours. They say naa a boy and girl can never be good friends, yes at least in this case I see eye to eye. One day Sam proposes Kheya and she didn’t see a reason to say no. Sam was more ‘understanding’ what she felt. She didn’t say yes then and there but both of them knew the pink colour was becoming pinker day by day. Another love story starts.

Life could have sailed like this and I wouldn’t have been writing this post for my readers if not there was a twirl. We all love twists as long as that occur to someone else’s life. With time and good “food for thoughts” Ryan understands the little mistakes (Little what he thinks) he did and try to get Kheya back unaware of the fact that someone else already filled the position he left.

When a relationship breaks both boy and girl suffer but the degree of endurance varies, may be the 80-20 rule applies here too. With Sam by her side life of Kheya was a colourful one but Ryan’s comeback made the situation blazing.
What Kheya would do now? One side she feels Sam compliments her better than anyone else, he stayed with her when no one else supported, but in split of second she feels she is doing injustice to Ryan and the long time they spent together. Love has its own pain but what is love actually !  Does that happen on the go?

Kheya had told me one day “We all are hungry, greedy for love, we run to people who show this to us.” How same Kheya who was so intelligent stands at this crossroad today?
I have heard love helps us to excel and sacrifice then what is this? People would tag Ryan as Tragedy King, Sam –he is no body in this scene, this person could be anyone if not he. But all will blame Kheya for what she has done but what was her mistake? Is not happiness her right? What if she dumps her old boy friend for a better one? Don’t we dump old TV and buy new slim LCD TVs ?  Meaning of promises and value of a person is different for different people and we can’t force someone to think like we do. We never know what exactly went wrong.

Some people say & many support “To be happy, we must not be too concerned with others”, who are these others? The one we leave behind for our happiness? I would rather say don’t wish me happiness if that cost to someone. I have gotten beyond that somehow. Wish me courage and strength and a sense of humour. I will need them all. But that’s my personal feeling.

Questions are many, Did Kheya try to solve conflicts between her and Ryan? Was Ryan aware of the degrading condition of their relationship? What was Ryan’s mistake to make Kheya apart ? If he tried to resolve that why it didtn't happen? Who is this Sam and how he won Kheya’s heart in such short span of time?
But for answers we should ask ourselves, if we were a character of this story what we would have done or rather do as in real life Kheya is in this crossroad?

What should Kheya do now?


Update : 18th December 2011
Read next part :Kheya's Reply to "Why this Kolavaridi"

31 comments:

  1. Well written... nice flow of thoughts.

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  2. Read a Line Just now which fits here..

    "Less Love is Friendship
    More Friendship is Love.."

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  3. OMG!!, didn't know you write so well, gr8 writing and food for thought!! Keep writing!!

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  4. Kheya ( Don't want to specify)Sunday, December 11, 2011

    Somewhere the every other working girl face the same problem today. More than desired attention from Multiple Male counterparts is very common. How will one girl choose who is better for her ?

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  5. Awesome story. Kheya needs to take a break. She has to believe in long term sustained commitment Vs compatibility of near future. Time gives all the reason and the way to clear the situation...

    Keep writting. I'm eager to read more... :)

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  6. @Ashutosh : I don't know what other people will say but personally I support what you said. I don't want any more Kheya-Ryan Story to happen.(Sorry Sam Boss ! You are no where in this Story). Sam will too understand and move on.

    What I feel, its a temporary phase and Kheya shall come out of it sooner or later. Girl like Kheya got lots of potential & dreams..

    Kheya pursue Your dreams rather relations.

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  7. God i m dying now-u
    she is happy how-u ???????
    Why this Kolavari Kolavari Kolavari Kolavaridi ?

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  8. Ha ha. Funny Soup Boys-u.
    I am with u-u-u

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  9. Are you planning to write the story with Kheya's point of view ? Saw this note in sidebar. Then take these inputs, it might help.

    Consider Kheya as an average girl , rather than what you described as Hot and Sexy.
    Tell in your language what Kheya was looking for all her life ? I dont have to tell you how you will write this, You are good in this and with each post your fan club is spreading.
    Last but not least write about the aspirations of the girl.

    Looking forward for your next post.

    Secret Admirer

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  10. Take a break.. permanent decisions shouldn't be made on temporary feelings....

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  11. I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let them go,
    and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
    But there is a problem, some good people get hurt in the process.

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  12. Pritu,
    We never knew we had a writer among us.
    Keep writing man. Left job ? Or continuing that with writing ?
    Write more posts man...

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  13. I feel although education is touching high in India, it's also giving birth to lots of confused people. Are we not open to advancement, giving to any relationship? The fact I see here for Kheya is, she's mostly at the "expecting" side, and not at the "giving side". Foolishly, management folks are taught to serve their clients well, build business relationship....not sure why they are failing on their personal front? Way to think Prits!!!!!!!!!

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  14. Why Dedicated to : "Nadan Parindey :: Rockstar" ?
    Anything special attached to your life ?

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  15. Someone called my by the name "Pritu" after real long. You must be someone from my college :)
    No though I want I can't leave my Job as of now.I earn in Rupee not in Dollar and Pounds. But surely I will keep writing.

    BE/BCA/MCA/MBA Education doesn't make you Wise. Does it ?


    Why "Nadan Parindey :: Rockstar" ? --- Tute Hue Dil se hi Sangeet Nikalta hain.
    Dear, Only you saw this line in this whole post ?? Anyhow, This song is very close to my heart because of its The Passion, Emotion & Attitude.

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  16. Dard pahle se hai ziyada
    Khud se phir yeh kia wada
    Khamosh nazrein rahen be zubaan
    ab na pahle si batein hain:(
    bolo to lab thar tharate hain
    raaz yeh dil ka na ho biyaan
    ho biyan ke asar koi hum pe nhai
    humsafar mein to hain husafar hai nahi:(
    dooor jata raha pass ata raha
    kham khaa be waja khaw bunta raha

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  17. I believe, any relationship will have ups and downs...no amount of love can avoid these 'downs'. Love gives you the strength to bear the down phase and the faith that things will be good again - and that helps you to be with the same person even at the worst of things. Those who run away while relation is in a down phase actually don't love or are not loved.

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  18. @Debdatta : Love ? What is that ? If that really exists then such situations doesnt happen. Education (read higher studies) has produced a set of "Confused Individuals" who think their "thinking" grew as their salaries and they become free to take any decision.
    There is a saying is SW industry ::: "When you give more value to your client than your friends you know the Manager role is not Far".

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  19. @Pritam: U r right..if love exits such situation doesn't happen...that's y I said if such situation existed between them then true love was not there from either or both the sides :)

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  20. @Pritam..and u asked what is love...I feel it consists of everything that wont let two people get apart. Now that is very relative...I can't define that for u and vise versa.

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  21. @Debdatta : Yes you are right. The term itself is "very relative" and Situation change . Anyhow There are some people who are not like "Kheya and Ryan" and I am happy for them :)
    Even the good thing is not good for all, Even the Bad is good for some one.

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  22. @Pritam : Yes Yes..and in this 'relative' world...u can't tag anything right or wrong. Things tend to be simple when two person in 'LOVE' have a common definition of it :)

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  23. @Debdatta : You are right...

    "Aasole Sotti Bole Sotti Kichu nei" --- There is nothing called Absolute Truth.
    We modify its meaning according to our need.

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  24. Pits
    i dont know about the real Kheya, but my story is somehow like the same.
    And i got lots of inspiration from you Pits.


    Kheya

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  25. I read the whole series but there is not a point from Sam.
    He is a real life person too with Emotions .

    Suppose I am a guy like 'Sam' in your story. And now a girl like Kheya is with me...
    But dont know why I feel she could not forget her past yet.
    may be she doesnt talk to him anymore but she does miss him and think about him, that I can tell for sure.

    A smile is missing from her life.. Now I feel bad.. What I shall do..

    Pritam
    I am asking you this because I know you can understand this
    If you have time reply me here, I will check this space..

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  26. @ Sam or what ever your name

    Don't take my words harshly.
    Tell me what is the Girl-Boy ratio in your office ? So if not you then someone else would be more eager to become another "Sam" without knowing the consequences.

    Helping someone is good,supporting someone emotionally is even better but if there was a slight chance that Kheya would have realised the problem between her and Ryan and could give it another chance and just because of You it didn't happen then Boss, I am sorry... U have done something seriously wrong and this guilty feeling wont leave you anytime.......

    "Jinke Ghar seeske hote hain, Woh Dusre ke Ghar par Pattar Nehi Maarte "

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  27. Pritam
    What to do now then ?
    I don't know about others, but I never though of same kind of situation .
    I though everyone have a past, and its ok with be friendly with some one and when that became an obsession I didn't understand.
    Have I done seriously something very wrong ?
    Really man curse work.

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  28. If I could Kill RohanMonday, April 23, 2012

    Dear Sam
    You are not alone. I am in a condition more or less like yours but the difference is that I came in her life long after her beakup but what bothers me is that so often she would say "Rohan was better in this.." I am fed up Man. And if I say her something it agiates her and she feels sorry for her past.

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  29. Again this post is gaining momentum.
    Reading last few comments it seems to me,some people realized what they have lost .
    Wish them happy soul searching.

    Pritam
    Whats coming next ?

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  30. Lol.. I laughed so much on If I could Kill Rohan's reply.
    Really if I were at your situation, i wld have felt the same
    Sympathy and please dont kill Rohan...

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  31. U are so true Pritam
    The bigger problem is here

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